I had a job interview after work today and Tom offered to take me out to dinner. I realize from the foods he is craving and wanting to have when we go out that he is missing some of the pasta dishes I used to make!
I ordered an appetizer, which is my new entree these days. Two nice fat crab cakes arrived. I ate about 3/4 of one of them and took the other one home to have for lunch tomorrow! Sometimes I am frustrated by how little I can eat. That old "mouth hunger" is still there and something I need to be mindful of because as time goes by, my stomach will be able to handle more food. I am lucky that I had already been well educated about and for the most part living with a high protein/low carb diet. For many people it is a big learning curve - so different from what they have been taught about the best way to lose weight.
In many ways it is so much easier to make good choices when there are specific limits in place, things that are good and others that are bad. For me, tracking my foods with limits or levels in mind for my carbs, fats, proteins, etc. gives me that structure to work within.
Tom and I went to the Farmer's Market the other day and he stopped by a bakery stand to get something and was upset that I wasn't going to get something, too. But I knew I would be able to find a snack that worked for me and just a few stands away I bought a packet of almonds which I enjoyed. In the past I would have felt let down that I "couldn't have" a yummy pastry, but right now I am happy with the better choice for my health and my goals.
I hope the interview went well yesterday. Fingers crossed.
ReplyDeleteYour major life changes have not only impacted you, they're impacting your family too. Tom will eventually get used to these changes and they impact, for example, trips to the farmers' market.
Fingers crossed on the job interview, Susan!
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